Are your In-law's this bad?
I CAN'T TAKE IT ANYMORE!
I have an in-law who constantly comes to the state I live in. Doesn't inform me she is coming. Then proceeds to call other inlaws to invite them to my home and another relatives home. By the time we find out this other inlaw is planning a family reunion at our homes. All the family members have planned to come and just call to TELL us they are coming!!!!! THIS IS RUDE!!!!!!
-name withheld for obvious reasons
Let's not forget the habit of tailgating. Nothing says, "I have no respect for other people" more than people who aggressively intrude on other people's space. It's being inconsiderate of their health and safety, as well.
you're being stepped on. if you don't want to go to all that trouble (above), you can always say that you and your home are unavailable during THAT WEEK, of course they will ask why, and your answer should be that it's your business and not theirs. be "sweet" and have a handy list of restaurants etc., that they should consider having their event at. AND, tell them all it's cash bar, cash food. then don't show up cos..."something" came up.
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